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Ukuba kunjalo, ingaba yintoni azisa apha

Le ndawo conceives kwaye lizisa amava nokuqheleka abantu, Jikelele impazamo uhlalutyo kwaye i-umzamo share nge abantu ngubani onako uncedo kwabo yima besela kwaye kuba free from utywalaNgayo iingxelo kwi"alcoholic amava"yethu yokuhlala. Zonke alcoholics engenasiphelo kwabo kunye omnye umbuzo: ungakwazi njani yima besela kwaye hayi zama ukufumana uid le unbearable banqwenela ukuba basele, ungakwazi njani ukufumana uid le-intsingiselo obsessive iingcinga malunga utywala. Mhlawumbi ngamanye amaxesha ufuna balingwe ukumisa, kodwa isiphumo njengoko enjalo akazange ngokwaneleyo: ngokwaneleyo nomonde kuba ezimbalwa iinyanga okanye nkqu ngaphantsi.

Impendulo kulo mbuzo kakhulu elula - kufuneka ufuna oko

Kufuneka iqalile ukutsala i phambi yi-abaphila ne enjalo ezoyikekayo ubunzulu ukuba zonke ezinye izibonelelo amathuba ukuba sobriety wanika kufuneka ezilahlekileyo lwakho uluvo injongo, Ewe, kwaye nengqondo ubomi ikhangeleka meaningless. Mhlawumbi uzamile ezinye iindlela zonyango: coding,"okanye nkqu waya settle kunye healers, ukususela abo basemazweni ezininzi divorced, namhlanje, kwi baninzi expanses lizwe lethu. Ngenxa yokuba kwakungekho ngenxa. Abantu rhoqo buza kwabo bathe ekhohlo: Njani yaye ngaba oko?"Ngokuba ngemihla yakhe thina basele kangangoko unako. Uzamile amaxesha amaninzi unsuccessfully ukuba abe cured, kwaye abaninzi kuthi kuba ezilahlekileyo ukholo hayi kuphela abantu jikelele kwethu, kodwa thina ngokunjalo. Ngamanye amaxesha siye wacinga ukuba"hopeless"kwaye zethu willpower kwaba ngoko ke buthathaka ukuze sibe ophele ngowama-phezulu kwi-i-intensive care unit kunye cirrhosis ye-liver okanye kwi-i-entolongweni kunye phezulu beds. Ngubani umntu kufuneka uyeke besela. Okanye ngenye indlela, ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha. Yintoni ingaba ithetha ngabo"yima besela"? Ucinga ukuba kuncama utywala, musa ukusela utywala. Ndiya kusoloko wacinga njalo.

Eneneni, iyama besela ithetha i-ngaphakathi ukutshintsha umntu, umphefumlo wakhe, lakhe kokuthenjwa ngokwakhe, lakhe attitude ebomini.

Ke elide ezindleleni. Kuthatha ixesha ukutshintsha kwaye ngexesha elinye ukufunda ukuze bonwabele ubomi ngaphandle utywala. Ngelishwa, oku kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza kwaye kubancedisi.

Kodwa musa get nomsindo.

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