i inkxaso inkqubo ukwenza izigqibo ezinzima

Yintoni esinokuyenza ukuze kuphunyezwe kwezigqibo nkqubo

Ukuqalisa ubomi bakho nge uqeqesho ukoyika phambi kokwenza ezingachanekanga isigqibo Njani ukwenza isigqiboInkxaso iindlela kuba usenza izigqibo ezinzima Kuba senza, ngamanye amaxesha ke nzima ukwenza isigqibo. Yintoni ukuba ayoyika ukwenza izigqibo? Ndenze ntoni ukuba mna andikwazi ukwenza isigqibo? Impendulo kulo imiba eli nqaku. Umfanekiso Photolia ingaba Bethu indlela ubomi, kunye ukhetho iimveliso. Kukho omkhulu kwaye ezincinane, kulula kwaye kunzima izisombululo.

Thina kufuneka yenze isigqibo enye okanye ahlale unmarried kuba ubomi, kuba okanye hayi kuba abantwana, ukuhlala kweli lizwe okanye isixeko, ukuphila, ukwakha indlu okanye kukrazulwa ngayo, njalo-njalo.

Utshintsho ebomini, ezifana umhlala-phantsi, ukufa a iqabane lakho, okanye iingxaki zempilo, soloko kufuna kuthi ukuhlala rhoqo ukuzonwabisa aze enze izigqibo.

Isigqibo ukuba sisebenzisa postponing okanye hayi ingaba isigqibo, eneneni isigqibo ngu ukugcina ubume nemeko yelo xesha. Kuba abanye, isisombululo yindlela elula, ngeli lixa abanye hlala pregnant kuba iintsuku, iinyanga, okanye nkqu iminyaka bade kwenzeka isigqibo. Kuba abantu abaninzi, kunokwenzeka ebone ukuba izigqibo ingaba kunzima kakhulu ukwenza kwi old age.

I-izisombululo ingaba elula xa omnye enye ngokucacileyo ngakumbi profitable ngaphezu komnye.

A kunzima isigqibo xa ngamnye enye sele abanye okuninzi kwaye akukho namnye kubo significantly ngcono.

Eyona akukho oyikhethileyo. Ukuba akukho ngcono oyikhethileyo, ngoko ke kukho fears ukuze sibe wenze okuphosakeleyo isigqibo, ekusenokwenzeka kuba uthabatha zoko kuthi. Kwi-izigqibo apho sisebenzisa rhoqo faced kunye iingxaki ukuba ngathi ayixhasi namnye kuthi ngxaki ngaphandle oyikhethileyo: ukuba thina khetha i-enye, siya kuba noko isixa-mali thabatha zoko enako kulindeleke, phantse ngokomthetho yokhuseleko. Ukuba, umzekelo, phakathi iingcali ukusuka apho ungakhetha, kunye onomdla kuso unguye, kwaye enye ufumana anomdla banking, ngoko ufuna ukudlala kunye (echanekileyo) ukhetho kwi ngezixhobo ezahlukeneyo imibandela.

Ukusebenza kwi-banking candelo izithembiso a reliable kwaye mhlawumbi nkqu ingeniso, umsebenzi kwi-unguye candelo, hayi hayi.

Umbuzo njani ebalulekileyo-mali ukhuseleko kokwenu, mhlawumbi malunga kuba i-banking kwicandelo lezolimo. Oku kunokuba k ubonakala ngathi na okulungileyo ukhetho kwi-mali ka-incopho imboniselo. Mhlawumbi, kodwa kwiminyaka embalwa i-banking kwicandelo lezolimo ngenxa painful realization ukuba banking ngu boring, ngesehlo soxinezelelo kwixesha kwaye unsatisfactory. Babeya bagcine zabo artistic kutshawuzela. Uza regret isigqibo sakho. Ngoko ke, ekugqibeleni, yaba safest oyikhethileyo ngokomthetho personal umsebenzi satisfaction, kodwa ke ayisosine omhle kakhulu oyikhethileyo. ICEBISO: Zibuze ukuba ingaba ngenene ubomi nokufa. izakuba ngenene kuba disastrous ukuba isigqibo sakho baba eboniswe njengoko ezingachanekanga. Oko ubomi benu basenokuba na kwaye ke yiya kwi. ICEBISO: Ukuba unengxaki tendency ukuya ezikhuselekileyo (khangela umzekelo ngasentla), buza: ukuba ngenene ngoko ke kubalulekile ukuba mna ubuqu discriminate ngokuchasene Nawe ukuba Ngaba musa ufuna okanye satisfaction wam personal inclinations kwaye izinto ezichaphazela yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kum? Thetha abahlobo bakho, ngabo crucial. Kule indlela, ungasebenzisa eziliqela izihloko ukwenza isigqibo malunga okanye ngokuchasene confiscation. ICEBISO: Nayo ibe luncedo ukubhala phantsi iimpikiswano kuba kwaye ngokuchasene confiscation ukuze beka nabo kwi-imihlathi emibini elandelayo ngamnye omnye, kwaye kwangoko ukubala ukuba impikiswano kuba okanye ngokuchasene ruling yiya ngaphaya kwaloo. ICEBISO: Wena musa ukulindela ukuba enze ilungelo izigqibo ngalo lonke. Abakho visionaries kwaye musa khangela elizayo. Ayilunganga izigqibo ingaba inevitable ngenxa yokuba thina zange kuba zonke iinkcukacha sifanele ukwenza ilungelo isigqibo. Kwaye wonke isigqibo (nkqu ilungelo omnye), kunye dibanisa kwaye thabatha, ichaphazela zethu kakuhle-ntle kwaye satisfaction. INGCEBISO: Xa ngaba ndenza isigqibo, nokuba kunganjalo akusoloko lixoxiwe. Ndithi kunye intliziyo yakho: Yeka.

Ndine kwathathelwa ingqalelo yonke imiba, kwaye kubalulekile ixesha mthetho.

ICEBISO: ndiza uxolo ukuba i-unfavorable okanye ayilunganga isiqalo isisombululo ngu sifunyenwe. Undixelele: andiyenzanga yenza kakhulu elula isigqibo.

Benza okulungileyo imali, kodwa ixabiso ngu phezulu

Yonke into ndafunda, ndandicinga.

Mna yaye yonke into mna ayikwazi ukwenza ilungelo isigqibo.

Mna musa khangela elizayo kwaye absolutely ayikwazi ukuhlola bonke zoko lomthetho isigqibo. Ngoku ndiya zama yokucinga ngayo ndingayenza ngcono kunokuba le meko."Ndinqwenela kufuneka ukomelela ukwenza ilungelo izigqibo kwaye isibindi abo ibenze ubuso i-adverse zinto ukuze ajike ngaphandle kamva. Ndiyabulela kuba ixesha lakho. Iminyaka emininzi, mna anayithathela sele ekuncedeni abantu ukusombulula zabo personal iingxaki. Njengoko ukulingana wam elinolwazi imisebenzi, mna unako ukufumana Nordic Ehamba, meditation, Jin Shin Jyutsu kwaye baking okumnandi sweets.

Molo, Ugq Lupo, ndine ebalulekileyo isigqibo ukwenza, uyise ukusuka Emantla lomzantsi Afrika ka-Germany, emva iminyaka emininzi yokuba Emntla ntshona.

Ndiza Annie kwaye ndiza emzantsi Afrika isijamani. Bekuya kuba wonke entsha ekuqaleni. Ndine isisombululo sakho kwi-umandlalo, mna ukulifumana eluncedo.

Ndinguye anomdla kwi-uluhlu lokuposa.

MfG Sigrun Forza andinaku ulinde dibanisa impulses:"Ngaphandle kokuba kuba 'ezilungileyo' abacebisi kwaye 'abantu bamncedise', kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kunzima kuba nam lokugqiba okanye motivate apho ukuthumela ityala emva isigqibo lwenziweyo, ukuqonda ukuba ebalulekileyo incopho ka-evasion, kwaye nokuba kungasiphi na isizathu, awunakuba bedlule isigqibo abandon kunjalo."Umzekelo, kwimeko i-obligation kuba i-apartment apho asingabo bonke checkpoints ingaba uxakekile ngenxa ziqinile deadlines.

Ukutsiba nge kunzima enye: hayi ke kakhulu ngenxa yokuba umntu waba ke betha zabo intloko, kodwa ngenxa yokoyika kukuba enye sele ngesiquphe uphose non-trivial inconveniences ukuba wathabatha indawo ngaphambili. Mna ukufumana inqaku iluncedo kakhulu, kodwa kubaluleke ngenene kunzima ukwenza izigqibo ngazo zonke iindlela, kunye ubuqu kwaye professionally. Owenza isigqibo kwakhona kuthetha tshintsha, kunye dibanisa kwaye uthabatha. LG Brandenburg mna elicetyiswayo le ncwadi yam therapist ngenxa imixholo ye depression, anxiety, perfectionism kwaye ndinako kuphela kuthi-mna bayibize wam lobuqu Lwebhayibhile. Mna rhoqo basebenza le ncwadi, ndawufumana, kwaye kuphela oku bandinceda kakhulu.

Mna recommend a ii-pal consultant yam patients ngenxa ebalulekileyo ulwazi kwi isondlo therapy, i-indlela yosasazo.

Xa ulinde therapy, iincwadi ingaba kakhulu eluncedo. Ndiyabulela kuba yakho ndwendwela. Ke elinye elimnandi mini. Kungekudala khangela kuwe.