Hayi ilungile kuba ezinzima budlelwane ukuba ingaba dill

Ndifuna eli nqaku ukuze ube malunga abantu

Thina zikholisa ukwenza amaxwebhu, soap operas, okanye novels ukufunda ukuba kukho umntu ongelilo kanti ke ilungile kuba okoSiya kuba imigca ethe ngxoxo imeko apho umfazi kwaye umntu ongelilo ilungele lokuqala umqondiso, ukuba ulibale ukuphendula imiyalezo kwaye uphose ngefowuni, okanye ufuna emva kwexesha ziganeko lonke ixesha. Oku kuthetha ukuba kufuneka azi ngothando kwaye ke ngoko hayi ilungile, kufuneka ngoko ke, abaninzi excuses na ukuhlangabezana usapho lwakho emva konyaka ka-budlelwane nabanye.

Ndiza uxolo, kodwa andikho yakho engundoqo nkxalabo

Kanjalo uyala kuhlangana kunye zakhe nezihlobo zabo okanye imiyalezo. Jonga, mhlawumbi yena ke scared, nkqu xa sukuba izinto ngaphandle kwi-wonke. Ingaba sekhe uqaphele Oku kuthetha ukuba ufuna ingaba ilungile kuba umntu othe ingxelo yonyaka seshishini kuba yakho projekthi, kodwa kufuneka azi unoxanduva xa ufaka ukwikhefu. Ngaba walile ukuthetha malunga elizayo. Unikeza phezulu inani zinto ukuba uyakwazi ukuthetha ngayo malunga, ezifana"Indlela engalunganga namhlanje ngu -". Oku kubaluleke kakhulu, kulula ukubona kwaye baqonde xa ufaka kwaye zidityanisiwe yakho elidlulileyo. Ukuba usoloko bathethe malunga yakho ex-boyfriend kwaye funny stories ukuba ingaba enxulumene zabo elidlulileyo. Thelekisa yakho kubudlelwane kunye elidlulileyo. Ibizwa ngokuba yi-zabo igama amaxesha ngamaxesha. Kule meko, akukho ndawo apho wenze into ngokuchasene abanye abantu ukuba badibane nabo.

Nisolko Dating umntu ongomnye, kwaye ke ilungile kuba ufuna ukuba babe ukuba umhlobo"kunye okuninzi".

Phantse zange wonke impela-veki ingaba mna bonwabele disco cocktails kwaye dancing ubusuku bonke elide endaweni ekubeni a romanticcomment isidlo sasemini kunye nabo ubukele a true love-bhanyabhanya. Yena akuthethi ukuba ufuna kwabo ukungena kwayo kwaye yakhe belongings. Okanye worse, yena ungafuni ukuchitha wonke ebusuku kunye nabo lowo ucela kwam ukuya glplanet isiqingatha, phantsi pretext ukuba kuza kubakho ishishini intlanganiso ekuseni. Mhlawumbi yena nje ifuna ngesondo, akuthethi ukuba ufuna, akuthethi ukuba bahambe kunye, kwaye sele ukuphonononga entsha, ilizwe.

Ukhetha a vacation kunye abahlobo bakho, kodwa isithembiso kwabo a okubhaliweyo kuba inqwelo.

Kufuneka trust imiba. Ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbi ke ngenxa yakhe elidlulileyo ayiphumelelanga budlelwane nabanye ngabo idityanisiwe. Uthi ukuze abantu andazi kwaye baya andinaku jonga yakhe. Abazithandayo ukuze abe geqe kwaye iingcaphephe yamkela zabo uncedo. Baya rely kuphela ngomhla ngokwabo.