Ekubeni yedwa vs. loneliness - okanye: Umntu kufuneka ahlangane. - Umnu Minimalist

Bobabini aba ngabo ke ukuba abe kwambatha ngokwakho

Lokuqala Mzuzu, mhlawumbi, kucingwa ukuba provokes ukoyika

Mhlawumbi ucinga Kuqala malunga njani thabatha ngayo izandi, ukuba abe yedwa.

Okanye indlela engalunganga kuwe, nento yokuba uzive.

Ngaphandle uxhulumaniso kwabanye abantu, abahlobo okanye Acquaintances. Kodwa kubalulekile precisely apha ukuba kukunceda kakhulu yesibini khangela, kwaye aqonde ukuba ekubeni yedwa kwaye loneliness ingaba u-macala.

Kuphela, lonely, sika ngaphandle basuke nabanye abantu

Medal kodwa asingawo Efanayo. A iphepha imida nawe rhoqo, ungakwazi nkqu, mhlawumbi, ekugqibeleni lonely kwaye kusenokwenzeka embitter ngexa enye ufumana isitshixo kuwe kwaye uyakuthanda a emangalisayo loluntu ubomi. Kuthetha ntoni ukuba abe yedwa ngoku? Yintoni kanye kanye kukuba loneliness? Kwaye apho crucial neeyantlukwano ukuxoka? Uyakwazi kuba phakathi amakhulu abantu baze bazive lonely. Kubalulekile, ekugqibeleni, akukho mcimbi kwenzeka ntoni jikelele kwenu, loneliness yi ndinovelwano ukuba ngaba ufumana kuzalwa kwaye ubomi. Kakhulu thabatha ndinovelwano ukuba mhlawumbi wonke umntu uyayazi. Loneliness lichaza imeko, ukuva internally isolated. Thabatha Imeko apho sifuna ukuva akukho yethu neighbors ngenene vala. Nathi ufakelo ukuba abantu, ukuba akwazi ukwabelana nani lethu amava, iingcinga, kwaye uvakalelo ukuze wabelane ulahlekile. Mna anayithathela uqaphele oku kukuvakalelwa, umzekelo, ixesha lokugqibela, njengokuba mna anayithathela kugqitywe ekuhambeni wam indlela minimalism, Ukuba akunjalo sebenzisa Facebook kuba iinjongo zabucala.

(Ngokuqinisekileyo kukho significantly worse imizekelo, ndifuna kukunika kodwa okubaluleke, nangona kunjalo, umzekelo i-minimalism.) Xa oku osisigxina loluntu ngokunxulumene, Facebook kum ukuthetha kanye, honestly, sele ekhokelwa ukukholelwa waba ilahlekile.

Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ufuna apha, kodwa thetha malunga yintoni kanye kanye Facebook kum kwaye mhlawumbi usebenzisa okanye hayi. Ngenxa yokuba akukho mcimbi njani superficial, kwaye elifutshane ka-impefumlo, budlelwane nabanye, iincoko kwi-Intanethi zazinokuba kuba kum, ngoko ke banikela kum ndinovelwano ukuba abe obandakanyekayo ixesha ngalinye loluntu ukuba abe loluntu, ezisebenza.

Njengoko ndalishiya loluntu womnatha, lacked kuba nam ekuqalekeni kwexesha, kunjalo, ngenxa ngesi sigqibo, mna anayithathela sika ties ukuba abanye abantu.

Namhlanje yinto eyahlukileyo. Wam phuma ngoku malunga ngenyanga. Ubomi bam sele evolved. Lo wam kanjalo loluntu ubomi.

Endaweni ngaphezulu ngemini--umhla phambili PC ukuba ezisebenza ukuba nihlale kunye nabanye, mna bakhetha kuba ngqo kunye nabantu.

Okanye ubuncinane ndiza ubizo lwakho. Naluphi na uhlobo personal unxibelelwano ngu kum kakhulu. Kwaye intsalela ixesha mna sebenzisa ubomi bam ukuphuhlisa. Kwaye kukho nto kuba Ngcono kum ngaphezu: Kuphela zolile amanzi izinto. Kuphela ngendlela icimile engqondweni yindlela ecacileyo jonga ingaba umfanekiso Mna kwaye ubomi. -Hans Marlies ukuba abe yedwa kuthetha kuba kum intentionally foreclose. Lokugqiba ngokukhululekileyo kwaye willingly yokuchitha ixesha exclusively kunye nam. Kutheni into ngoko ke Dibanisa? Ngoku: kwixesha elidlulileyo, ndaba downright ukoyika. Mna luyafuneka abantu jikelele kum, bafuna ukuva isetyenziswa, kwaye endaweni ethile kanjalo, kunjalo, liked. Ukuze zibonakalise ubomi bam, imigqaliselo yam, kwaye iintshukumo, mna ihlawulwe abanye ingqalelo ukuba reactions Abanye abantu. Ukususela Kweli mna ke bafudukela i-ukuthathela ingqalelo, psalms criticism. Ixesha elide le mibuzo kwakungekho kum: abakufutshane nawe? Yintoni ungakwazi ukuyenza? Yintoni ufuna wena? njl-njl. Kodwa akukho mcimbi apho ndakhangela kuba kubhaliwe, nokuba wam apartment, lam-bume, bazalwana budlelwane, ndafumanisa akukho real impendulo lonto. Kwaye ngoko mna ndawufumana ntoni mna nyani. Ndine listened yam iingcinga, ngaphandle judging okanye ukuhlola. Mna wasukela yonke ingcinga. Wandithatha abanye ixesha. Kwaye ekugqibeleni weza kwinqaku apho kwentloko yam ubuze. Dibanisa Emptiness. Ngenxa yokuba xa intloko yakho ngu ezizolileyo, ngoko ke kufuneka aqonde eyona ntoni ukuba zenziwe. Uyakwazi ukucacisa bona abo ufuna ngaphantsi komhlaba. Nisolko kulinywa nzulu honest kunye ngokwakho. Ukususela ngoko, ufumana kuphela kuba enyanisweni kuba uhlobo Ritual. Kanye ngeveki ndiya kuthabatha ibonakalisa ixesha lam. Ingathatha rhoqo jonga ezahluka-hlukileyo. Kubalulekile kuphela ebalulekileyo kugxila ngokwakho. Ngoko ke, ukuba unayo le mibuzo engqondweni, nibe bazive lonely okanye nje ecacileyo intloko ufuna ibonakalisa kwi ubomi bakho kwaye egameni lakho iinjongo yenza ngoko ke, wasinikela Nethuba. Ukuthatha kancinci ixesha ukufumana ukwazi kuwe.

Ukuba ufuna ukuthatha a ibhafu.

A imbiza ka-basele oyithandayo ikofu okanye iti, mamela oyithandayo-CD, relax kwaye get intloko yakho nge-Meditation okanye Yoga. Akukho mcimbi into ngaphandle ungathanda ukuba lokuqala ukwenza oko. Uyakuthanda mzuzu, mamela cwaka babambisa phezulu kuwe. Ukufunda nawe ngaphandle ukwazi, fumana into ufuna. Ukufundisa, ukuba kunokwenzeka, ubomi bakho (ubuncinane inxalenye) emva koko. Kwaye ngoko bonwabele kuyo. Uyakuthanda ngokwakho kwaye ubomi bakho. Kwaye uza kuyibona: Ukuba uyakwazi, uyazi ukuba ngubani unoxanduva kwaye oko ufuna yakho loluntu ubomi dibanisa indlela. Ke ngoko, yedwa, njengoko solitude ngathi. Ekugqibeleni, le nto ukuba abe yedwa, kodwa qhosha liyimfuneko kanjalo ukususela loneliness. Sebenzisa ixesha kunye nawe ukufumana yakho eyona mna nokuzisa ekukhanyeni. Kwaye kwangoko zama ukuba bonwabele ngayo, ukubonisa ezinye abo ufuna ngokwenene ingaba.